Conflict Resolution – Applying Christian Principles to Resolve Workplace Conflicts
Devotional week 37
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18 (NIV)
I tried to live a life conflict-free, but then realised that issues never get solved and someone always feels like their opinion did not matter. We all view scenarios from our perspective, our culture, and our personality type.
But as followers of Christ, we are called to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:9), reflecting His heart in how we handle disagreements.
A while ago, we had lunch with some leaders in our community. As we were all from different cultures around the table, we couldn't help but discuss the issues we all face in South Africa. However, my dear friend, Dr Mark Killian, said the following. "We are called to be peace makers, not peace keepers. Those words tugged at my heartstrings as I understood that keeping peace means we leave things as they are, which helps during times of peace, but not when there is an underlying current of unmet expectations. To be a peacemaker, we need to have those very difficult conversations with the focus on resolving the conflict. Not just arguing to win.
The Bible reminds us that conflict isn't always wrong; it can actually lead to growth and deeper understanding. However, how we handle it determines whether we glorify God or fuel division.
Jesus modelled humility, patience, and grace in every interaction. Instead of reacting in anger or seeking revenge, He pursued reconciliation. In the workplace, this means choosing love over pride, listening before speaking, and seeking solutions instead of winning arguments.
Challenge
Is there a workplace relationship where tension exists?
This week, take the first step toward reconciliation—whether it’s listening, apologizing, or offering forgiveness.
Pray daily for the person involved and ask God to soften both your hearts.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being the God of peace and reconciliation. Please help me to handle conflicts at work with wisdom, patience, and grace. Give me a humble heart to listen, courage to speak in love, and strength to forgive. Use me as a peacemaker who reflects Christ in every interaction. May my words and actions bring healing, unity, and glory to Your name.
Amen.